At our age…

Entering a relationship is accepting the concept of living strictly for the present… The “here” and the “now”. 

We’re young. Odds are you’re not going to be with someone for “the rest of your life.” And you might even fall in love more then once..

It doesn’t mean all the times you said you’d die for them or do anything for them weren’t true… at the time being, due to the way you felt, they probably where. 

Accepting that it isn’t going to last forever is something we all simply keep in the back of our minds, because you care so much the thought seems even unrealistic. In present time, you’re happy. Happier then you’ve ever been, and you aren’t thinking about a future that they won’t be there, or a past when they weren’t there.. but a present where both of you make each other happy, and frankly don’t give a shit about anything else, but the actual moments you’re with them. 

This is why I say we have to live for the present, because often when things from the past get bought up into a relationship things begin to go bad, because you have to envision a life where you weren’t there and have to still manage to understand how they’ve became who they’ve become through only a means of communication. It’s hard to actually understand someone if you weren’t there, it isn’t impossible but it is hard. And really, you can’t live in the past so if you hold on to something from it, which in cases we often do, the present becomes more difficult to manage. You have to forget it or move on with it, because if you can’t let it go.. everything becomes unbalanced.  

The future is more taboo, because we hate to think about it. You know you’re young. You know they won’t be there forever, you know you won’t marry them, and you know there possibly will be someone else. But you don’t give a damn, cuz the present seems perfect. When you begin to think about this more and more, it envelops you. Especially in times where there is in fact a dead end approaching. Or what seems like a dead end. You think it’s easier to break it off now before I get to attached, when in fact we all know you’re attached and this is the last thing you want to do. If it really gets into you head, you stop because the signal went off and you were smart enough to realize this means nothing overall, but in the present, tends to mean everything. 

Your head outweighed your heart. But really, your hearts the one that hates your train of thought.. 

You have to accept the present because really that’s the only place anything ever makes sense. For the past can’t be changed, and the future is undetermined.

Girls subconsciously like assholes.

Then blame the rest of us when one of them does you wrong..

Funny how that works……

Wearing a bulletproof vest won’t prevent me from shooting you in the face. 

People change because life is too long to live with the same personality, same judgements, and same perspectives.

All it really is , is evolving as a person. 

Evolving to adapt…